Introduction - Romance in a relationship is the chord that makes the heart beat strongest.  Without it, love can weaken and even disappear.

“101 Tips for Enhancing your Love Life” is a personal journey exploring the many faces of romantic love. 

Differences exist between the sexes; we all know this to be true.  Each living on a different planet, men and women have their own ideas about what is romantic.

01. True Romantic - Day 1: ~ Leave a note professing your love for your partner to find during the day. Put the note where it will be found, easily.  Try their briefcase, the driver's seat of their car, in their coat pocket, in their lunch bag, taped to the receiver of the phone, taped to their computer, or left taped to a doorknob.

~ As soon as you arrive home for the day seek out your partner and offer a big, loving kiss.  Tell your partner how much you love him or her and ask about their day. Make this a new, daily habit.

02. Little Things - The biggest myth in romance is that you must pull off something big and extravagant so that your efforts will matter.  The truth is that what will impress your loved one the most will often be the little things.

Little things are rather simple things that you do for your loved one. Despite the fact that they are "little" they can mean so much.  Your loved one will be touched that you took the time to show him or her that you care so much.  You will be considered thoughtful. 

03. Primary Colors - When wishing for romance, your kisses had better be good to make a favorable impression. It may not be fair, but some will judge you on your first kiss as to whether or not they will want to see you again.

A good kiss delivers a powerful impact! If you're a great kisser, you're going to turn your date on and you will have a definite edge.

What distinguishes a good kisser from the kisser we all want to forget? The key is to be soft and gentle and follow their lead.  Here are some good romantic kissing tips to enhance your love life:

04. Science of Kissing - Women often compare a good kiss to "melting butter" and like being "hit by a wave," according to a recent survey. Men often describe it as similar to "vibrations at a concert" or a "three pointer at the buzzer to win the NCAA basketball tournament," according to the same survey.

Experts have proven there is a lot of physiology behind the warm and fuzzy feelings that come from a good kiss.

05. Primary Flirting - It is rather difficult to be romantic without first flirting.  What exactly is flirting and how can you adapt some flirting into your own romantic moods and play?  To begin, you don’t want to be too aggressive.  Start with very friendly gestures and once you have gotten those moves down, and then go for the romantic flirting!

06. Gift of Roses - Have you ever wished you could come up with a new gift idea to show your loved one how you feel? 

Have you ever wondered about what the different colors of Roses actually mean?  For instance, next time you choose a specific color of Rose, do so to convey a special meaning. 

Look below and learn what the different Rose colors represent and next time you buy a Rose as a gift, deliver a loving message at the same time.

07. Romantic Lead - Some men just aren’t in tune with their romantic side. Fortunately, most men can be taught, given the right attitude. Proceed carefully and don't ever pressure your man into romance. Here are some initial tips:

Remember, you want your man to take the lead, but, on his terms, not yours.  Start by pampering him. Do what he likes to do best -- even if that is drinking with the chums, playing a video game, or just watching TV on a Saturday night. 

08. Romantic Rituals - A very simple and effective way to steal away for some quality time together is to establish a time to meet each day. 

This can easily be arranged over the lunch hour and after dinner hours.

One idea is to arrange a time to meet for a drink of tea, or whatever type of drink that you prefer.  If possible, arrange to meet in your home where you are assured of privacy. 

09. Many Expressions - Here are some things you can do to make the sparks of romance fly:

♥While your loved one is at work, use your spare key to open their car door and place roses and a card in their driver's seat. This will show your loved one your true feelings.

♥Don't buy your loved one a commercial type card to declare your love. Make them one and send it to them in the mail, even if you live together. The card will surprise your loved one!

10. Tired Relationship - We are all familiar with the phrase, “love springs eternal,” BUT, just how does one bring this phrase to life in a relationship that is slowly disappearing?

When we are engaged in a solid, loving relationship, the stars shine brighter, the moon glows bigger and everything else in life seems to just fall into place.

This is ideal, of course!  The reality is that our love life often needs extra care and attention, even at the best of times.

11. More Affectionate - While your love is preparing the next meal go up behind him or her, and slide your arms around their waist. Nuzzle your face into the side of their neck and tell them how much you love them.

When walking past your loved one, brush by them with a quick touch. This could be a quick touch to the small of the back, shoulder or waist.  Softly kiss your loved one on the cheek.

12. Random Acts - Showing random acts of affection liberally will put a smile on your loved one’s face.  They will feel good, and that will cause you to feel good.  Showing random acts of affection is all part of being thoughtful.

Show affection towards your partner for no reason and at completely spontaneous times. Why should showing your love by cuddling and kissing be limited to certain situations?

13. Simple Ways - Showing someone that you care and that they are special to you does not need to be complicated.  Some of the most touching ways of saying I LOVE YOU are the simplest and most appreciated.

Adapt just a few today and watch as your love life takes wings.....and flies!

~Give or get a hug for no reason
  
~Tell the other person that they are important and respected
  
~Kiss them when people are looking

14. Long-Distance - Engaging in a long-distance relationship is very challenging!  To be up to it, take on the task of sending meaningful messages to your loved one on a regular basis.

Use the instant messengers like AOL, Yahoo, ICQ, etc. to keep your love life hopping, long distance.  You have relative privacy and can reinforce the width and depth of your love this way.  Try to IM each day and night!

15. Romantic Nickname - You can sure enhance your love life by adopting a nickname special only to your loved one!  If you think that doing this is kind of wishy-washy, think again! A nickname mixes in some romantic spice into your love life.

A special name such as "Sweetheart" or "Cutie” can lighten up your loved one’s face and send a rush of sexy butterflies to their stomach!  Why not try it and see for yourself?

16. Creative Planning - Send your loved one on a scavenger hunt to be remembered! He or she will visit places that are significant to your relationship, like where you first met, where you first kissed, your first date. You are waiting at each place ahead of him or her to give them the next clue. End the hunt somewhere romantic over a bottle of good wine.

Send your lover on a scavenger hunt throughout your home to find a gift.

17. Date Night Ideas - Spend one night out each week doing something fun and different. If you're looking for a few good ideas to start a weekly tradition with your loved one, read on!

Play a Fun Board Game

There are a bunch of really romantic and sensual board games for couples that you will find in most games shops. You could also go with traditional games and add a romantic twist to them.  For Scrabble, say, adapt it by creating the rule that all words spelled must be on the topic of love and romance.

18. Just for Summer - Enjoying the four seasons is a special treat for those in love.  Summer seems to bring out the lover in all of us.  Use some of these creative suggestions and enhance your love life in style!

Build a Huge Bonfire

Sleep Entirely Under the Stars
This means no covering of any kind.

Go for a Long Canoe Paddle
Wear your life jacket! Camp grounds will rent them out. Exploring is lots of fun!

19. Love Letter - Personal, handwritten love letters are an ideal way to express your feelings to someone. They are not difficult to create if you are true to your feelings and give it some careful thought. Write what moves you best, be sincere and you will be sure to bring a smile to your love's face.

Waxing Poetic

Anyone can just copy a favorite love poem and then send it off.  What will touch their heart best is something of your own design. 

20. Creative Places - Adding the element of surprise to your love note is always special to the receiver.

Here are some really creative suggestions about where you can leave your handwritten love note:

In their shoes

In their lunch bag everyday

Under their pillow

When they travel just insert one into their luggage

In their laptop bag at night to be discovered first thing in the morning at work

21. Express Love - By now we all realize that one of the most important things to remember in a committed relationship is to keep the romance alive and thriving.

It is all too easy to take one another for granted after a period of time passes.  Doing this, though, will not produce a strong love life and is not conducive for ongoing passion.

Easily the most effective way of keeping your relationship fresh and filled with love and appreciation is to simply nurture romance.

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